There are times when it is necessary to cancel a date and it can get really frustrating because you are missing the other person. You don’t have to just lounge and feel sorry for yourself or just pine away until you get to see him again. Why not just text him? If it is even to let him know that you are thinking about him.
One of the most important factors of a lasting relationship is proper communication. How you communicate with your partner and how often you do communicate will depend on how and what you both prefer.
Simple ways to make him always want to text you
Here are some ideas for when you want to text your boyfriend and how to keep the text communication fun, interesting and engaging…
1. Thinking about you
Even if you aren't a Ayah Marar fan are you? this text's got your name on it on his smartphone screen. Thinking about you…
2. What was it like growing up?
You think he's special and he thinks it's cute :) Who wouldn't, right? What was it like growing up in the stone-age…
3. Once upon a time
When I was big… Texting cute takes an imagination. And the best way to take him there starts with once upon a time.
4. How was your day
Simple. Sweat. And all cute need to be cute texting. Seriously, how was your day? If nothing else it will get him talking.
5. Your cute text
Come on. You can do this. What's your cute text idea?
What can you really talk about?
Decide what you want to talk to him about before you text him. This is not a texting rule that is set in stone. It just makes for easier conversation to know exactly what you want to centre the conversation around so you don’t end up off topic. So what exactly can you talk about during a conversation with him? And how do you keep it interesting? It can be about any anything that concerns you or that you really want to talk about. It can even simply be a “Thinking about you” text. Just make sure to not let the entire conversation be about you, sharing mutual ideas allow the texting to be a two way street and makes it all the more interesting. Here are some other ideas that you can employ.
Try Flirty Texts
Even if you are both apart there are many ways that you can flirt with a guy by sending him cute texts to let him know that you are into him. You might have been going out with him for a while or might even be in a relationship but nothing is wrong with texting him to remind him that you are thinking about him. Texting can be made an integral part of your relationship and comes in handy when calling is not really appropriate (like in a noisy area or an environment where it might seem to be impolite to be on your phone). And really, flirting on the phone in certain environments will only encourage people to get inquisitive; no need to make a public spectacle out of a private affair. Flirt with him by telling him that you can’t wait to see him in order to make him more eager to see YOU. Flirting will keep him interested and keep the relationship interesting. When you both reach the point of a phone call hearing each other’s voice will seem more enticing.
Play Text Games
Even if you want to send, cute flirty texts for him there are other things that you can text to keep the communication interesting and spontaneous. Playing games via text messaging is a great way to keep a great text conversation going. Find little trivia questions that will have him laughing or guessing and wanting to go to the next round. Brain teasers are also a great way to go. Compile a list of trivia questions that you think might tickle his fancy. The great thing about this is that you have a wide array of categories to choose from. If he is into sports then choosing trivia questions from the sport category will definitely get and keep his attention. Maybe you can both take turns and tackle other categories that you both enjoy. Riddles are also a similar option to look at as they are similar to trivia questions. Don’t be a spoilsport and expect him to answer all the riddles correctly or to be right all the time. You would be surprised the silly answers that people come up with during these kinds of games; that is what makes it interesting.
Text questions and answers
The question and answer game is a good choice for texting your partner. Use the time to ask questions that you might have felt shy asking him. These questions can be about himself, about his past and growing up or about persons that are close to him. There are many persons who are more open to sharing personal things about them when they are not literally facing the person that they are sharing the information with. They get to hide their emotions and conceal the shame they might sometimes feel when they talk about uncomfortable topics. You can start with general questions like “what was it like growing up?” Questions and answers don't necessarily mean that the questions have to be of a personal nature. You can ask questions that are random and silly that requires or has no set answers. A game such as 21 questions can easily be played via texting and can ease you into breaking any discomfort. You just simply think of a word, a place or thing and have him ask a few questions that will lead him to the correct answer.
Text an interesting story
To ensure that boredom doesn’t kick in, find other ways to ensure that his level of interest does not falter. A great idea is to create a story together. Choose a theme whether you prefer scary thrillers, drama, romance or any other genre that you believe you could both handle. You both choose a setting, and go with the flow. The story could have you both submit individual lines or more than one. Start off with a general beginning like “Once upon a Time” it is a great ice breaker and in no time you will both be laughing at the silly lines that you both submit to your story. It might bring out the creative side of you that you never knew existed and what is even more impressive is that you will get to see how versatile he is and also how imaginative. Reading out the story that you both create when everything is put together and see how silly it sounds. The bottom line is it will get you laughing at the mutual effort.
Text about a movie
Many people have tried this and find it absolutely silly and thrilling at the same time. It is quite simple. If he can’t come over to watch a movie with you then why not watch it apart but still text each other to talk about it? Sure it might seem corny but it sure beats watching it alone. Text communication is still communication nonetheless. It doesn’t have to be a movie per se; you can both watch a sitcom or comedy series to see and discuss what might happen next. Text and ask him his opinions and see what his views are. Compare and contrasts how well they differ from your views or how much they are similar. You might have a favorite character in a sitcom that you absolutely dislike while he loves that particular character. Share messages that express your own opinions about things that are happening. You will be lost in the show and in him in no time.
Text about the next date
Knowing what to text a guy will either boost him up for the next date or turn him off. The choice is yours, especially when you know the guy a bit and knows what turns him on or off. Do not flood his inbox with nagging questions about if he likes you or questions that you already have answers for. Don’t spend the entire time asking him about you or what he thinks about you repeatedly. He will think that you are conceited and might want to turn away from you. Text messages are meant to encourage communication not discourage it so the things that you chose to text him should be thought of with care.
Ask about him too
The interest that you share with your girlfriends will be different from those that you share with the guy you are dating. Don’t be surprised if he has no interest in your hair or makeup or your nails. Guys tend to only look on the surface of these things; texting him about the style that you want your nails done might leave him clueless and leave you in a one sided text communication. Keep messages mutual, i.e., ensure that whatever the topic is, you know that you are sure to get him eager to talk about it. Ask him what he likes will make him feel special.
Get him, to talk about his day
If you are dating someone it makes them feel encouraged when you try to know what is happening with them. You don’t really have to wait until you both have quiet time to send him cute flirty texts. It can be done in the middle of the day. You can find a flirty text to send him during his lunch break if it is even to put a smile on his face. These little instances can make a guy’s day without you even knowing how much it means. You can also send him a cute good morning text to help him feel excited about starting his day. People are more motivated to achieve greatness when their day starts out well. He might be down and you don’t know it. Sending a text can easily get him back on the right track. If it is even nothing more than a funny joke. A lovely “how was your day” text will do wonders.
Take steps don’t force it
If you can’t find topics to talk about or realize that the conversation is winding down, don’t push at it too hard. Just like a phone call, it was bound to come to an end sooner or later. If he wants to go to sleep don’t force him to stay up with you by forcing him to continue the conversation. Instead let him know how much you enjoyed the texting and that you look forward to texting him again. Pushing him even after he has said his goodbyes will discourage him from wanting to respond to your text again. He might think that you are pushy and controlling. This might even discourage him from asking you out again and if you really like him, dating is one of the main things that you have been looking forward to. Just relax and know when to let him go and have his own time. Texting can be just as much fun as it is annoying.
Text just because
If you have just begun dating you need to understand that sending cute flirty text messages to send to a guy is not a guarantee that he will like you the way you like him and think that you are the kind of woman he desires to be in a relationship with. Know the guy you are dating before you text him. This way you can eliminate the hang-ups when there is delay in reply or no reply at all. The key to remember is not to force him to text you back or to reply when you want him to. If a guy wants to text you or enjoys having text conversation with you there is absolutely no need to force it. You will be surprised how much text conversations he will initiate if you just keep the texts friendly and engaging.
Why should you even bother texting…
The mode of communication is also important band is dependent on what you both like and what might be appropriate at the time. For example sometimes a phone call is not appropriate because of the environment.
Why text?
Texting is a wonderful option for persons who want to be discreet and for those who want to find interesting ways to communicate their feelings to that special someone. There is never a better time to text than now!
Texting may be your only option to…
say how you feel
The truth is, people tend to say how they feel easier via a text message than other more popular methods such as in person or making a phone call.
Texting helps you to…
keep him interested
If you are just dating someone sending cute flirty text messages can spice things up and keep him in interested in you. Little short, messages during the day will heighten expectations and make him more eager to see you or make him excited about planning the next date.
