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Top 3 Kissing Techniques: How to Kiss Well Enough to Make Him Purr

Your older sister told you about it. Your friends told you about it. That nagging girl from the other class told you about it. But somehow you are still not sure enough. Find out what are the different ways to kiss a guy.

Learn to kiss well with different kissing techniques to make him purr like a walrus

A wise (and very romantic) French poet and dramatist Edmond Rostand in his famous play ‘Cyrano de Bergerac’said: “A kiss is a secret which takes the lips for the ear.” Isn’t it true? The thing that makes a kiss so wonderful is precisely the fact that is the most intimate moment that can happen between two people.

kissing art

Even though historians are not completely sure, the first appearance of a kiss as a romantic notion can be traced back to around 1000 years BC in India. In one Indian epic poem called Mahabharata, which dates from that period, there is one verse that saying: "She set her mouth to my mouth and made a noise that produced pleasure in me," and that is probably the first time someone described a kiss in literature.
From then on, many things have changed; however, the magic of kissing remained the same. No wonder many of us, once we discover that world, frequently try to find the answers to the questions related to how to kiss, and what we can do to make that moment of kissing unforgettable.   

Top 3 Ways to Kiss Well: After Months of Longing for That Promising First Date, Sweep Him off His Feet with the Best Ways to Kiss

couple kissing on a date

Once you enter the that exciting stage of your life where passionate kissing brightens up your day, and you start getting nervous about not having experience, and not knowing how to kiss well, and which is the best way to kiss a guy, you need to know one thing: just like for everything else in life, not everyone likes the same thing. There are tons of different ways to kiss, kissing variation, and what is a good way for somebody; it’s not so good for somebody else. But here are some examples that proved great in most cases:

The Single-Lip Kiss

This is probably something close to what you can see in films and TV shows. It might not be one of the best ways to kiss, but is the best way to start kissing, and it is a kissing comfort zone for the absolute beginners. But don't let that fool you; single lip kissing can leave a bruise if you are not careful. Once your partner’s lips have touched yours, just gently take one of their lips between yours and suck on it a bit. But be gentle, don’t suck it away! Take a small step, who knows, maybe he is into a bit rougher styles, but since it is only a beginning, don’t rush into it. Consider this as if it an intro into a kissing session (but it doesn’t always have to be), so you can give each other time to respond to each other signals before you move on. And when you move on, how to kiss else, then French...

French Kiss

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It’s not a MUST, but French kissing usually turns out that among many different ways to kiss, variations on kissing, the two of you will probably pick this one. “Why,” you ask? Because, once practiced, this kiss can give you goose bumps the way you never thought was possible. The French kiss can be tricky, we admit, especially if both of you are inexperienced, but that is the reason you are reading this, and we are here to help. According to many, this is the best way to kiss a guy, and here it is how: after you two have explored each other during the Single-Lip Kiss, gently open your lips and let your tongues find each other. Again, here applies the same rule: do not rush into anything and do not force anything. Start playing with each other tips before moving on to something else: give his body a second to respond to this move. If he starts pulling away, don’t make a big deal out of it, take a step back and wait for the right moment to try again. If he likes to lead, maybe next step will be from his “how to kiss list.”
However, if he is willing to move on, just relax and keep it gentle, neither of you wants to end up being all messy. Explore along with him, pay attention to what he is doing with his tongue (if he is the one with more experience) and synchronize with him.

Make your first kiss count

The very first kiss happens only once, but first kisses are something that gets to you with every new relationship. Every couple goes through “kissing adjustment” phase in the beginning. Enjoy your every first kiss.

Earlobe and Neck Kiss

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Despite being two different ways of kissing, those kinds of kissing are great for taking breaks for some air. But they are also really sensual and effective, for both guys and girls. Once you feel you need a second or two to take a breath and manage your saliva, just slide down to his neck and kiss all the way up to his earlobe and kiss it, too. You might give a try to gently sucking on it or gently biting. It’s a great way to spice up the entire experience, and give yourself a break at the same time. And if you wondered how to kiss passionately, put this on your list, because it can help you a lot.

Call it a love bite; but whatever you call it, a hickey is a hickey!

If, instead of an earlobe, you start sucking on his neck, while you teeth are also pressed against it (biting and sucking at the same time) you can leave him a reddish-purple mark, known as a “hickey”. Even though it is can be really fun, it can be a real pain in the neck trying to hide it later from the people, because it can last from 2 to 7 days, depending on how gentle the skin is. So, before you make him one, better ask him if he would like it. You might by now how to kiss well, but don’t be pushy about it.

Things to remember about kissing well

We know that once you read about it, it all seems so simple and easy to do, but we also remember how it was for our first time: it is completely different thing to find yourself face to face to him. Once butterflies start fluttering around, it’s really hard to focus on anything else. But remember, in order to learn how to kiss well, you need to practice. The difference is that, apart from other things you need to practice through life, this one probably brings most fun around it. So once you both find yourself on the way to falling in love, don’t shy away: practice together and try out all the best ways to kiss. Practice and enjoy it!

By Abie Giles

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