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Ways To Really Confuse A Guy With Mixed Signals

What is he confused about? Your emotional baggage is slowing down the progress you are making with the guy you like. In other words, you are giving him mixed signals and its throwing him off course.

Playing games with a guy puts a spell on him, sending in into a world of confusion. Mixed signals, whether it be trying to make him feel jealous or simply taking major leaps forward verbally when expressing your feeling while keeping him stuck on first base, send his mind through a maze; And, the worst thing about it is that you don't realize that you are the one throwing him off.

Here are some ways you may be throwing his game off with mixed signals.

girl holding on to her heart with guy in the background recieving mixed signals

Telling him you still got a thing for another guy

When you tell a guy that you are stuck on another guy but want to move on, he as no other choice but to be confused out of his mind.

He is thinking, should I wait, should I go, should I slow down.

When another guy comes in the picture, most guys will wait for you to get over another guy if that's what you are, stuck on some other guy.

If this sounds familiar, you know that you are sending him mixed signals.

My advice, talking about another guy isn't going to get him to like you more.

Getting jealous when he brings up other girls

The only reason you choose to say to him that you had a thing for another guy is that you think that he is always talking about other girls. You even go as for as to asking him, "Are you sleeping with her?" What's worst is that you are not even dating yet. Don't you think it's about time you took a step back?

He's got issues or he may be friend zoning you. Nevertheless, that still doesn't mean you have to get jealous about other girls when you are not even going out.

Trying to make him jealous by talking about other guys too is not going to make things better, but only confuse him with mixed signals.

Being all bark and no bite with his feelings

For guys, translating the words girls say into what they mean touchy feely—like can be an emotional roller coaster ride. That is even though it feels like innocent flirting, you are sending him mixed signals if you are just doing it to tease him.

Saying things that are going to make him think you want too...

He had his tee shirt off for a brief moment and you just happened to see to patch of hair on his chest. Then you walk over to him and be like, that's a little bit sexy.

Then he's like, she's totally into me. Guess what he does next? He get's all confused from the mixed signal you just sent.

If you are going to tease a guy, I suggest leaving out words that are going to throw him off like, sexy; and be all like that's a little bit hairy.

Sending him mixed signals can make him feel like he is being friend zoned

Not making up you mind fast about whether you want to start giving the guy you like hints that you should get together is one way to end up sending him mixed signals. So now may be the time to start asking yourself, Do I really want to send this guy on the right course to date me? If you do, then I advise you to clean up the signals you are sending him. That way there is less confusion for him, leaving him with more time to think about fun things to do together.

By Abie Giles

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